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# VN14. Bitterness, letting go and Taylor Swift
- URL: https://isemurphy.com/vn14-bitterness-taylor-swift/
- Published: 2024-06-12T15:57:00.000Z
- Updated: 2026-10-15T08:22:09.000Z
- Author: Íse Murphy-Morris
- Tags: Voice Notes

Every Human Design type has a "not self" alerting system and for Projectors it's bitterness. I share a real life example of how bitterness can be a Projector's ally and its true purpose of alerting us to where we are out of balance and not in the correct environment. I talk about letting go of the old paradigm and narrative, i.e. who we thought we were. Also, Taylor Swift.

00:00 Intro   
00:31 Bitterness and Human Design   
02:24 Letting go   
02:46 Taylor Swift   
03:33 Recognising bitterness   
04:30 Old narrative of "success"   
05:00 My bitterness experience example   
07:40 What bitterness is alerting us to   
08:41 Daniel Kahneman / Thinking fast and slow (book) on success   
10:16 Don't need to force anything to be recognised   
11:26 Identifying and letting go of the incorrect environment   
12:00 Recognising the bitterness in my experience example   
12:24 Taylor Swift and recognition   
13:19 The difference between feeling myself and not-self   
14:19 Letting go of the old narrative   
17:25 The grief of letting go   
18:14 Bosco & \*James Nesbitt   
19:37 Being safe to be yourself   
20:58 The stragglers and not knowing what is next   
22:02 Appreciating the bitterness   
22:58 Leaking energy as Projectors

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